September 12th 2012

September 12, 2012

Great day, my son is in town for managment training and we got to have dinner , and I get to see him again Friday before he goes home. 

Break Up Date /Days since we have seen each other ----September 3, 2012 --9 days

Days since Contact-4

Break Up Qoute of the Day, "It's not me, it IS you"

Break Up Song of the Day

 

Here is a pictue of myself and my wonderful, amazing son and I, and I truly blessed. He is my life.

9/11

Break Up Date /Days since we have seen each other ----September 3, 2012 --8 days

Days since Contact-3

Cancel my subscription because I don't need your issues

 

What a sucky day. Spent all day doing 9/11 tributes for my classes.  Deleted my pictures of DB from my computer atwork, which felt GREAT. However, at the end of the day, I went into my desk draw at work to get tape and came across two framed pictures of he and I and a toy VW bug car he bought me. That made me get teary. I am so upset that he is is angry with me. We have broken up before, but he has never been angry with me and it sucks. Well, tommorrow WILL be a better day as my son is here :)

Break Up Date /Days since we have seen each other ----September 3, 2012 --7 days

Days since Contact-2

Break up Quote of the Day--""If your phone doesn't ring , it's me""

Break Up Song of the Day

No contact

so, it has been 44 hours since contact, I am over the hump

The places I CAN go

Okay, as I bitch and moan, laugh and cry and accept my beak-up with DB, I neede to post the positives as well as the negetives, so these are my places in the Boston area that I can go and love.  and with a little help from my friends, I will find new places:

Nantasket Beach, Hull MA. My happy place :)


My favorite hang out spot at Nantasket with Millie and Carol, never had a bad time here. Fire and Ice

Mine and Natalia's favorite hang out spot. Stoneforge in Raynham MA.

Vincent's night club Randolph, MA....Always dance here...meat market, but can be fun :)

Marina Bay, Quincy MA . ONly went here with DB once, and he hates the fact this is a dress up place, but have had GREAt times with my friends here :)

Biff's Lounge, Dorchester.  In my girl Lisa's neighborhood. Dress to impress, cheap drinks and GREAT music.

Mi casa.  Lived with DB for a year, nice to have my own sapce again :)

I forgot that the ORIGINAL thing I was going to post was THE PLACES YOU DON"T GO. It is a very stupid idea to go to places that you went with your EX.  It brings up bad memories, and plus you don't want to seem like a crazy stalker.  Sadly, after spending 2 years with DB and being new to Boston, he showed me so many places.  But maybe you guys can enjoy some of these places:

Ups and Downs Neponset Circle Boston, we he worked, is currently closed, but could reopen.  Where we met.


The Harp and Bard Pub on Dorchester Ave.  Right on the corner of where DB lives, we use to got there to watch games a lot.

Venice Pizza Dorchester Ave Boston.  We would get take out from here at LEAST once a week.

DB's favorite Chinese place, I think it is vile and will not miss it.

My favorite Indian restaurant in DB's neighborhood.  I WILL miss this place

McKenna's --Our favorite breakfast spot

Malibu Beach Dorchester, where we use to take the dogs walking.
 
Our secret fishing spot in Dorchester, I WILL go there when I know he isn't there.
 
Our favorite specilaity market Lambert's on Morrissey Blvd in Dorchester. I will still go there as the steak tips are amazing.

New England Aquruim Long Wharf Boston, where we would take my granddaughter.

Franklin Park Zoo Mattapan Boston. another spot we would take the baby.

Clam Box on Wollaston Beach Quincy.  Best fried clams around


Another on of our favorite places on Wollaston Beach, the beachcomber.

Countless romantic walks spent here :(


The Cove in Yarmouth, where we stayed this summer
 
Drive in Theatre on the Cape where we saw Paranorman

Our favorite cape beach the Cliffs at Wellfleet

Another place we spent Countless hours at Scusset Beach.
AND FINALLY.......Our special ocassion and birthday place The Tinker's Son Norwell,
MA


The Tinker's Son in Norwell, a GREAT place twe went to celebrate our birthdays. ;(


Another of our hangouts.


A neat little place we found to get GREAT wine.

Wow did not BLOG in days. LOL

So, I met up with Mike(new guy) for coffee and had a nice time.  He really is a gentleman.  I will see him again.  DB has texted less mean things, but is holding something over my head. Have decided to ignore.  I have been babysitting today, and plan to watch the Saints game. 

Busy cleaning and planning for a girls night on Friday.  Having dinner with my hot new neighbor on Saturday night.  Don't mind the flirting, but I don't even want to kiss right now.  I am so not in the mood.  Realize that despite my acceptance (told DB that we need to have nothing to do with each other AT ALL), that I reallyneed to greive the relationship.  Listening to sad songs as I blog, but not crying.